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SOFT PLACE TO LAND.

This space is for the seekers and feelers, ready to deepen your self-knowing, start a soulful conversation, or navigate grief from life's many losses.

Welcome to my corner of the internet.

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Sometimes, grief lingers in the background, in emotional and behavioural patterns.

This quiz gently uncovers what kind of hidden grief may be quietly shaping your life.

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My own healing led me here

Hey, I’m Kendal, a Grief Recovery Method Specialist®, your healing companion and founder of Healfulness.

I know what it’s like to carry pain that doesn’t “look” like grief.
To feel heavy but high-functioning.
To wonder why you're still stuck when nothing looks technically wrong.

My own grief didn’t just come from a death or the childhood divorce I endured.

It also came from family estrangement, abandonment by my father, lonely expat life, becoming a mother and (so much) more.


It came as self-sabotage, overeating, overspending, and feeling trapped in patterns of behaviour.


I help you complete what’s unfinished, so your body, your heart, and your life can finally exhale.

This isn’t therapy.
It’s not about fixing yourself.

No over-analysing either.

I offer an action-based method with transformation guaranteed.

It's guaranteed because everything you need is already within...I just give you the tool.

A tool you can return to over and over again for the inevitable future losses this life will bring

You’re allowed to bring all of you.

Just as you are.


“Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means it no longer controls you.”

- Akshay Dubey

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